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Life After 50: How to Find Freedom in Letting Go of Who You Used to Be

Life After 50: How to Find Freedom in Letting Go of Who You Used to Be

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Schellea

Life after 50 brings significant changes, both physically and emotionally. 

Sometimes you might think about the woman you used to be—the younger you who worked, raised kids, and kept the house running smoothly. 

But right now is not the time to reclaim the past. It is time to accept the new you and find happiness, confidence, and purpose in the present.

It is important to stop longing for what was and fully accept who you are now as you go through this time of change. 

Here’s how to stop searching for the woman you once were and welcome the new chapter with open arms.

1. Acknowledge and Honor Your Journey

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Your life up to this point has been full of experiences, lessons, and growth. 

Take a moment to appreciate the amazing journey that got you to where you are now instead of looking back with longing. 

You have been through tough times, celebrated wins, and learned a lot along the way.

Enjoy the depth of your life and the knowledge you have gained by honoring your journey. You can see that you are whole already, so you do not need to go back in time to feel whole.

2. Let Go of Unrealistic Expectations

Women are often expected to do things that are not realistic, especially as they get older. 

It can be stressful to feel like you have to look younger, stay thin, or keep up with your old self. 

But it is important to remember that these expectations are just that—pressures from outside sources. They do not make you who or what you are today.

Stop thinking that you need to be the same woman you were in your 30s or 40s. 

Accept the changes that come with getting older, and remember that your beauty, strength, and confidence do not go away as you age. They evolve and deepen.

3. Focus on What Brings You Joy Now

As you move into the next phase of life, it’s essential to shift your focus to what brings you joy and fulfillment today. 

Your interests may have changed over the years, or you may have found new hobbies and interests that you really enjoy. 

Take these new pleasures to heart and let them help you make your life feel full and important.

Setting priorities for what makes you happy, like gardening, traveling, volunteering, or spending time with family and friends, will help you live in the present instead of dwelling on the past.

4. Rediscover Your Identity Outside of Roles

For many women, life before 50 was defined by specific roles—mother, wife, career woman. 

While these roles were central to your identity, they may have shifted or evolved as you’ve grown older. Now is the time to rediscover who you are beyond these roles.

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Take time to explore your personal passions, interests, and dreams. What excites you? What do you want to pursue? 

You can build a stronger sense of identity and purpose by focusing on who you are as a person, not just how you relate to others.

READ ALSO: What to Do If You Feel Stuck in Your 50s & How to Rediscover Your Passion

5. Believe in the Power of Change

Life changes all the time, and we grow and change with each year. Accept that things are changing instead of fighting them. 

Know that changing and growing does not stop as you get older; in fact, they become even more important as you get older.

You can get new chances, experiences, and ways of thinking when you are open to change.

When you turn 50, this change in perspective can give you new energy and excitement as you start new things in life.

READ ALSO: How to Start Your Self-Love Journey in 2024

6. Lovingly Take Care of Your Body

As you age, your body changes, and that’s okay. Instead of longing for the body you once had, practice self-compassion and care for the body you have now. 

This includes nourishing yourself with healthy foods, staying active in ways that feel good, and prioritizing rest and relaxation.

Taking care of your body isn’t about chasing a younger version of yourself, it’s about honoring where you are today and ensuring that you feel strong, healthy, and vibrant in the years to come.

READ ALSO: How to Overcome Negative Self-Talk After 50s

7. Build Confidence in Your Unique Beauty

Beauty after 50 looks different, but it’s no less powerful. 

Instead of comparing yourself to younger women or holding onto outdated beauty standards, celebrate the unique beauty that comes with age. 

Wrinkles, gray hair, and other signs of aging tell a story—your story.

Take pride in the knowledge and strength you have gained over the years. 

Remember that your beauty is not just in how you look but also in how you act, how confident you are, and how graceful you are.

READ ALSO: Healthy Aging Secrets: How Relationships Can Help You Live Longer

8. Surround Yourself with Positive, Supportive People

As you go through life after 50, it is important to be around positive and helpful people. 

Being with positive people, like friends, family, or a community group, can help you feel more confident and ready to accept your new self.

Find people who are happy with the person you are now, not the person you were in the past. 

Having good relationships can motivate you to live your life honestly and with more confidence.

9. Pursue New Goals and Dreams

If you are over 50, that does not mean your dreams are over. In fact, now is the perfect time to pursue new goals and passions. 

There are a lot of chances to start a new hobby, start a new career, or make a lifelong dream come true.

Set goals that excite and challenge you. 

After age 50, life is great because you have the knowledge and experience to go after what you really want without the things that used to distract you.

READ ALSO: 10 Research-Backed Hobbies That Will Boost Your Memory

10. Celebrate Your Achievements and Resilience

Lastly, take time to celebrate the woman you are today. You have grown in ways you might not have thought possible, dealt with problems, and adjusted to changes. 

You are resilient, strong, and capable of embracing this new chapter with grace.

When you celebrate your successes, you build a sense of pride and self-worth that lasts beyond your years.

 You don’t need to search for the woman you once were because the woman you are now is more powerful than ever.

Closing Thoughts

Life after 50 is not about reclaiming your past self, it’s about stepping into the woman you are today with confidence and grace. 

Remember that letting go does not mean forgetting the past as you go on this journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Accepting who you are and making your life meaningful and happy are key. You will feel free and clearer once you let go of old beliefs and expectations.

You can fully enjoy this new part of your life if you let go of unrealistic expectations, are open to change, and focus on what makes you happy right now. 

Remember, this is a process, and it may not be easy. But with patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to explore new possibilities, you can find the freedom you’ve been seeking. 

Your past does not make you who you are; how you live in the present does.

Trust your gut, enjoy the changes, and be proud of the amazing person you are becoming.

♡ Love ♡,

Schellea.

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This workout is the perfect follow-up to my #1 viral video “Lose Belly Fat Sitting Down”, with the same trusted format: safe, effective, and designed for real women in midlife and beyond. Whether you're navigating menopause, struggling with low energy, or returning to movement after a break, you’ll feel supported every step of the way.

✅ Beginner exercise for women over 50
✅ Helps reduce hormonal belly fat
✅ Perfect for menopause weight gain
✅ No impact, no floor, no equipment
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🪑 This is your invitation to move gently, rebuild strength, and feel amazing in your body again. Do this daily, or pair with my full seated workout playlist for real results — even from a chair.

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3:13 - Knee Raise Claps: Abdominal Muscle Strengthening After 50
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5:14 - Fast March: Increase Pace for Metabolic Boost Over 50
6:13 - Upper Body & Side Ab Stretches: Balance Training for Seniors
7:13 - Leg Side Extensions: Core Focus & Form for Menopausal Women
8:14 - Arm Circles: Upper Body Strength for Women Over 50
9:14 - Chair-Supported Leg Movements: Abdominal Engagement After Menopause
10:13 - High Leg March: Mindset & Pride Building for Mature Women
11:14 - Left to Right Leg Raises: Core Stability for Aging Gracefully
12:17 - Continued High March: Mental Wellness & Physical Strength Over 50
13:14 - Runners Exercise: Hip & Spine Alignment for Women Over 50
14:13 - Final Push: Gratitude & Body Appreciation for Midlife Wellness
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#fabulous50s #MenopauseWorkout  #LoseBellyFat  #SeatedWorkout

Lose stubborn menopausal belly fat with this 15-minute seated ab workout designed specifically for women over 50. If you're just starting your fitness journey or want a gentle, effective routine that actually works, this is for you. No standing, no floor work, no crunches — just 15 beginner-friendly ab exercises you can do sitting in a chair.

This workout is the perfect follow-up to my #1 viral video “Lose Belly Fat Sitting Down”, with the same trusted format: safe, effective, and designed for real women in midlife and beyond. Whether you're navigating menopause, struggling with low energy, or returning to movement after a break, you’ll feel supported every step of the way.

✅ Beginner exercise for women over 50
✅ Helps reduce hormonal belly fat
✅ Perfect for menopause weight gain
✅ No impact, no floor, no equipment
✅ Chair workout for core and belly fat

🪑 This is your invitation to move gently, rebuild strength, and feel amazing in your body again. Do this daily, or pair with my full seated workout playlist for real results — even from a chair.

🎥 Watch my original viral workout here → https://youtu.be/tS01JLqO2B8?feature=shared

💖 Join thousands of women transforming their health after 50 — one seated workout at a time.

0:00 - Intro to Seated Belly Fat Workout for Women Over 50
0:28 - Warm-Up Movement: Gentle Body Preparation for Women Over 50
1:15 - Slow March: Core Engagement & Posture for Menopause Belly Fat
2:14 - Hip Hinge Exercise: Safe Forward Lean for Core Strength Over 50
3:13 - Knee Raise Claps: Abdominal Muscle Strengthening After 50
4:14 - Knee to Hand Crunches: Burn Belly Fat Sitting Down
5:14 - Fast March: Increase Pace for Metabolic Boost Over 50
6:13 - Upper Body & Side Ab Stretches: Balance Training for Seniors
7:13 - Leg Side Extensions: Core Focus & Form for Menopausal Women
8:14 - Arm Circles: Upper Body Strength for Women Over 50
9:14 - Chair-Supported Leg Movements: Abdominal Engagement After Menopause
10:13 - High Leg March: Mindset & Pride Building for Mature Women
11:14 - Left to Right Leg Raises: Core Stability for Aging Gracefully
12:17 - Continued High March: Mental Wellness & Physical Strength Over 50
13:14 - Runners Exercise: Hip & Spine Alignment for Women Over 50
14:13 - Final Push: Gratitude & Body Appreciation for Midlife Wellness
15:13 - Workout Completion: Celebrating Success & Next Steps for Women Over 50

#MenopauseWorkout
#LoseBellyFat
#SeatedWorkout
#WomenOver50
#Fabulous50s
#BeginnerWorkout
#ChairWorkout
#AbWorkoutOver50
#MenopausalBellyFat
#BellyFatWorkout
…………………………………………………………………………………………….
✅KEEP GOING WITH THE 14 DAY LOSE BELLY FAT CHALLENGE ✅
https://courses.fabulous50s.com/14-day-lose-belly-fat-challenge/

✅ If you want to start working out at 55, here are things you should know: https://fabulous50s.com/fitness-after-50-too-late-start-working-out-at-55/

🦋 SUBSCRIBE TO MY NEWSLETTER
I'll send you the latest updates in fitness, health, lifestyle for Women Over 50!
✉️ Signup is free: https://fabulous50s.com/subscribe-to-our-newsletter/

🦋 WORLD RENOWNED COURSES
Glow Up Fitness Course: https://fabulous50s.com/14-day-glow-up-fitness-course/
14-Day Weight Loss Challenge : https://fabulous50s.com/new-you-weight-loss-14-day-challenge-sign-up/
More Courses: https://fabulous50s.com/courses/

🦋 GET MY FREEBIES
Free Workout Plan: https://fabulous50s.com/freebies/
Free eBook: https://fabulous50s.com/free-tools/
Free Resources: https://fabulous50s.com/blog/
Buy Me A Tea And Get 5 Bonuses: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/fabulous50s

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Beauty, Fashion and More: https://store.fabulous50s.com/

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Website: https://fabulous50s.com/

🦋 GET IN TOUCH
Partnerships: [email protected]
Customer Support: [email protected]
MAIL: Po Box 12239 Clunes, NSW 2480 Australia 2480
…………………………………………………………………………………………….

DISCLAIMER:

Note that this video provides entertainment and education, not medical advice. Consult your physician before changing your exercise/health routine. Making any changes to your exercise/health regime is done so at your own risk.
#fabulous50s #MenopauseWorkout #LoseBellyFat #SeatedWorkout

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About me

Schellea Fowler, the visionary founder of Fabulous50s, brings over three decades of leadership and expertise in small business to her legacy. Not only has she achieved personal success, but she has also become a mentor, generously sharing her extensive experience with emerging entrepreneurs.

After retiring at 50 in 2016, Schellea’s passion for continuous growth led her to pursue further qualifications, becoming a certified fitness instructor and personal trainer specializing in exercise and brain health for older adults. Through Fabulous50s, Schellea continues her mission of inspiring women to embrace and celebrate every phase of life with confidence and vitality.

Her diverse qualifications reflect her commitment to holistic well-being, including a Neuro Athletics Coaching Certificate (NACC) from Neuro Athletics, Meditation Teacher Training from Yoga Coach, Fashion Styling certification from the Australian Style Institute, and Advanced Personal Colour Analysis from AOPI.

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In addition to her wellness expertise, Schellea is also a certified business and life coach, equipping her to empower women not only in health and fitness but also in their personal and professional growth.

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