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How Can You Start Losing Weight in Menopause When Nothing Has Worked Before?

How Can You Start Losing Weight in Menopause When Nothing Has Worked Before?

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Menopause is a big change in your body, your emotions, and your hormones. If you’ve tried everything to lose weight and nothing has worked, you’re not alone. 

The truth is, menopause weight loss requires a unique approach that addresses what your body is going through right now. This isn’t about diets or deprivation. You have to work with your hormones, metabolism, and mindset.

In this comprehensive guide, we introduce a 3-phase plan designed specifically for women in menopause. You can start this phase right away or have been struggling for years. This menopause weight loss plan gives you structure, clarity, and most importantly, hope.

And if you want step-by-step workouts, nutrition tips, and guidance, make sure to follow our menopause weight loss playlist on YouTube, created to help you get results naturally and gently.

Why does it suddenly feel impossible to lose weight in menopause?

If you feel like your body changed the rules overnight, you’re not imagining it.

Here’s what is happening behind the scenes:

  • Hormone changes. As estrogen drops, your body tends to store more fat around your middle (the “meno belly”). The Menopause Society explains that midlife weight gain is driven by both aging and menopause, with a shift toward belly fat.
  • Muscle loss. From your 30s onward, women naturally lose muscle every decade if they are not doing strength training. Less muscle means you burn fewer calories, even when you are resting.
  • Life load. Poor sleep, stress, caring for family, work demands and low energy make comfort food and late-night snacking much more tempting.

So when you say, “I’m eating the same as I did at 40, but now I gain weight,” you are right. Your body is different now.

Just remember that you are not broken. You simply need a different strategy for this stage of life.

Is it really possible to lose weight in menopause when nothing has worked?

Yes, it is possible. It may be slower than before, but it is not hopeless.

A big review of studies in peri- and postmenopausal women showed that:

  • Diet changes led to more weight loss than exercise alone.
  • Diet + exercise together gave the best change in weight and body composition.

Another review found that exercise training in postmenopausal women:

  • Reduced fat mass (body fat),
  • Helped maintain or increase muscle, especially when resistance training was included.

And a study of postmenopausal women using a Mediterranean diet (lots of vegetables, olive oil, whole grains, fish and beans) showed that a personalised, lower-calorie version helped them lose weight in just eight weeks.

So if you feel like nothing has worked, often it’s because:

  • The plan was too strict (you couldn’t keep it up),
  • It ignored muscle and strength,
  • It didn’t fit your real life.

We’re going to fix that with a 3-phase approach.

What is actually going on with hormones, muscles and metabolism?

You don’t need a medical degree, just the basics:

  • Estrogen drops → your body tends to store more fat around your belly.
  • Muscle slowly drops with age → your “engine” gets smaller, so you burn fewer calories.
  • Metabolism slows a bit, but not as much as people fear. It is mostly the loss of muscle and movement that makes the big difference.
  • Sleep and stress often get worse in midlife, and that can increase hunger hormones and cravings.

This is why very low-calorie crash diets can feel brutal now. When you slash calories:

  • You lose muscle,
  • Your body gets “scared” and holds onto energy,
  • You finish the diet and the weight creeps back… plus a bit more.

You should aim for a steady, gentle weight loss that protects your muscles and nervous system.

What is the 3-Phase Plan to start losing weight in menopause?

Think of this as a calm, steady plan you can live with:

  1. Phase 1: Reset your approach (no more punishment diets).
  2. Phase 2: Rebuild your metabolism with food and movement.
  3. Phase 3: Repeat small habits until they run on autopilot.

Studies in postmenopausal women show that structured lifestyle programs combining diet changes and exercise can lead to meaningful weight loss (often 5–10% of body weight over a year), improved energy, and better quality of life.

Let’s breakdown each phase:

Phase 1: How can you reset without another extreme diet?

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This is where you stop fighting your body and start understanding it.

What should you stop doing first?

Ask yourself:

  • Are you skipping meals and then overeating at night?
  • Are you cutting whole food groups (like all carbs) and then binging on biscuits?
  • Are you living on coffee, snacks and stress all day?

These patterns confuse your body and make you feel out of control.

In Phase 1, your job is to press pause on extremes:

  • No “only juice for 5 days” plans.
  • No “never eat after 6 pm or you’re bad” rules.
  • No “I’ll just eat 900 calories and hope for the best”.

Instead, we do something gentler and more grown-up.

How do you create a gentle calorie gap without counting every crumb?

Most midlife women do well with a moderate calorie deficit, not a harsh one.

Simple ways to create that gap:

  • Swap sugary drinks and juices for water or unsweetened tea.
  • Keep alcohol for special moments, not every evening.
  • Build plates that are ½ vegetables or salad, ¼ protein, ¼ smart carbs (like brown rice, sweet potato, beans, quinoa).

This style of plate is very close to the Mediterranean way of eating. Studies show that when menopausal women follow this kind of pattern, they are less likely to become overweight and see better blood sugar, cholesterol and waist measurements.

You don’t need perfection. You just need many more “pretty good” meals than chaotic ones.

Expert Tip

Explore lighter workouts during this phase via our Menopause Weight Loss Playlist on YouTube, designed specifically for stress reduction and metabolic reset.

READ ALSO: Menopause and Estrogen: What Really Goes On With Your Hormones

Phase 2: How can you rebuild your metabolism with food and exercise?

Reignite Your Metabolism

This is where you shift from “small and hungry” to “strong and well-fed”.

How much protein do you need now?

As you move through menopause, your body uses protein less efficiently. Experts now suggest women over 50 often do better with around 1.0–1.2 grams of protein per kilo of body weight per day, spread across meals.

You don’t need to chase numbers, but you can:

  • Aim for 20–30 g of protein at each main meal,
  • Include protein in snacks when you can.

Examples:

  • Greek yoghurt with berries and a sprinkle of nuts
  • Two eggs plus some smoked salmon or beans
  • Chicken, tofu or lentils added to soups and salads
  • Cottage cheese or hummus with vegetable sticks

Why this matters:

  • Protein helps you feel full for longer.
  • It helps you hold onto muscle while you lose fat.
  • It supports bones and recovery after exercise.

What kind of eating pattern supports weight loss after menopause?

A lot of evidence now points toward a Mediterranean-style pattern for midlife women:

  • Lots of vegetables and fruit
  • Whole grains (oats, brown rice, quinoa, barley)
  • Beans and lentils
  • Nuts and seeds
  • Olive oil and avocado
  • Fish and seafood, with smaller amounts of poultry, eggs and dairy
  • Less processed meat, added sugar and ultra-processed foods

Reviews in menopausal women show that this pattern can:

  • Help with weight management,
  • Improve blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar,
  • Reduce some menopause symptoms, especially when it is a bit lower in calories and paired with movement.

One study of postmenopausal women who followed a tailored Mediterranean diet for eight weeks found clear weight loss and better body composition, even without a hardcore exercise plan.

So instead of “good” and “bad” foods, think:

“How can I make this meal look more Mediterranean?”

Add colour, plants, healthy fats and protein.

What kind of exercise rebuilds your “engine”?

For midlife women, movement is not just about burning calories; it’s about changing what your body is made of.

A 2023 review of exercise in postmenopausal women found that:

  • Aerobic exercise (like brisk walking, cycling, swimming) is great for losing fat.
  • Resistance training (weights, bands, bodyweight) is great for gaining or keeping muscle.
  • Combining both works best for body composition.

Simple weekly target:

  • 150–200 minutes of moderate movement (for example, 30–40 minutes on most days)
  • 2 days of strength work, even if each session is just 20 minutes

You can start with:

  • Chair squats
  • Wall push-ups
  • Bands for rows and glute work
  • Light dumbbells or water bottles

The goal is not punishment. The goal is to tell your body:

“Please keep this precious muscle. I still need it.”

Extend Your Strategy

For step-by-step workouts and morning routine tips, check out our Menopause Weight Loss Playlist on YouTube, where we deliver targeted, effective sessions.

READ ALSO: Ways to Boost Your Metabolism After Menopause

Phase 3: Reclaim Your Body Confidence

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If you want to feel good about your body again, losing weight isn’t just about the number on the scale. In phase 3, you’ll make changes that will last, getting past the restrictions of diet culture and forming lasting habits, confidence, and joy.

This is where you join everything together into a lifestyle you can keep.

What does a simple day of eating look like on this plan?

Here is a gentle example:

Breakfast

  • Greek yoghurt or soy yoghurt
  • A small handful of berries
  • A spoon of nuts or seeds

Lunch

  • Big salad bowl: mixed leaves, tomatoes, cucumber, peppers
  • A palm-sized piece of chicken, tuna, beans or tofu
  • Drizzle of olive oil and lemon

Snack

  • Apple with a small handful of nuts or
  • Carrot sticks with hummus

Dinner

  • Baked salmon or lentil stew
  • Roasted vegetables (broccoli, carrots, zucchini, capsicum)
  • A small portion of brown rice or sweet potato

Plenty of water or herbal tea in between.

No food group is completely banned. The balance just leans toward whole, simple foods most of the time.

How can you keep going when life gets messy?

A few rules that help:

  • Never quit for a whole week. If you have a rough day, restart at the next meal, not next Monday.
  • Keep a few “lifesaver” meals ready – frozen vegetables, tinned beans, eggs, Greek yoghurt, wholegrain bread.
  • Watch your self-talk. Instead of “I have no willpower,” try “My body is learning something new. That takes time.”
  • Track wins that are not the scale. Better sleep, fewer cravings, looser waistband, more energy.

Studies in women show that weight changes in midlife link closely to habits around food and movement, and that early, realistic lifestyle changes can reduce health risks later on.

Small changes, done often, beat massive changes you cannot stand.

Expanding Your Support System

  • If you’re considering a GLP-1 medication, it’s very likely that you’ll experience weight loss, but you’ll lose muscle during that process. Losing muscle can negatively affect your metabolism, energy levels, and long-term strength, especially as we age. To prevent this, it’s essential to include regular weight training in your routine and follow a high-protein, nutrient-dense meal plan that supports lean muscle maintenance while promoting fat loss.
  • Nutritional supplementation: Olive oil (polyphenols), fiber, magnesium, and vitamin D are all good for you and can help your metabolism and mood.

Sustainability Through Syndication

  • Rotate routines: Mix HIIT, strength, flexibility, and recovery sweats.
  • Reevaluate goals quarterly:  adjust habits as your body evolves.
  • Stay connected: Regional support or online groups help you stay inspired.
  • Return to the playlist: Our YouTube Playlist for Menopause Weight Loss keeps growing with new motivational workouts and insights.

Why This Plan Works (When Nothing Else Has)

Unlike restrictive diets or punishing workouts, this 3-phase plan aligns with the unique physiology of women in midlife. It recognizes that menopause weight loss is about working smarter with your changing body.

  • Hormonal alignment: We start by addressing estrogen decline and metabolic dysfunction (not ignoring it).
  • Adapted for midlife: Each phase builds with your changing physiology in mind, no crash diets, no extreme exercise.
  • Holistic structure:  This covers exercise, nutrition, mindset, recovery, and optional medication for a full-spectrum, sustainable transformation.

This approach is about empowering you with tools tailored for this unique life stage.

READ ALSO: Belly Fat and Inflammation Over 50? It Could Be Hormonal Imbalance and Insulin Resistance

What if your weight still does not move?

Sometimes, even when you are doing “all the right things,” the scale barely shifts. If you have been consistent for at least 8–12 weeks with:

  • A mostly Mediterranean-style pattern,
  • Enough protein,
  • Regular walking and basic strength work,

and your weight still will not budge, it may be time to:

  • Ask your doctor for a full check: thyroid, blood sugar, medications, sleep issues, and any conditions that might make weight loss harder.
  • Review your “extras”: portion sizes of healthy fats, frequent snacks, evening drinks.
  • Look at stress and sleep. Poor sleep and high stress hormones can block progress even when your food looks perfect.

Remember: the goal is not just a smaller body. The goal is a healthier, stronger, calmer body that carries you into your 60s, 70s and beyond.

Your Next Step & Final Thoughts

Start with Phase 1 today; pay attention to how your body responds. Increase muscle-building foods, regular exercise, and better sleep.

Take your time and plan your steps through each phase. This transformation is meant to fit your changing body and life.

Don’t do it in solitude. Join our Menopause Weight Loss Playlist on YouTube, where you’ll find tailored workouts, guidance, and encouragement to keep you inspired and unstoppable.

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You deserve to feel good about yourself, have more energy, and be confident after changing. It’s not only possible, it’s also doable.

FAQs: Common questions midlife women ask about menopause weight loss

Can you really lose weight in menopause after 50?

Yes. It can be slower and more stubborn, but it’s absolutely possible. Most of the challenge comes from changing hormones, less muscle and lifestyle habits (stress, sleep, food environment). When you address those with structured habits, especially protein, strength training, and a gentle calorie deficit.

Is belly fat in menopause only about hormones?

Hormones play a big role, but they aren’t the whole story.
– Falling estrogen shifts fat from hips and thighs to the belly.
– Aging and less muscle reduce your metabolism.
– Sleep, stress, diet, and movement also matter a lot.
So you can’t fully “fix” belly fat with hormones alone, but you also can’t ignore them. It’s a both/and situation: hormones plus lifestyle.

Do you need to cut carbs completely to lose weight in menopause?

No. You don’t have to cut carbs to zero. What helps more is:
– Choosing high-fibre carbs (whole grains, beans, lentils, fruit, root veg)
– Reducing refined carbs and sugary drinks
– Pairing carbs with protein and fat so your blood sugar rises more slowly
Some women like lower-carb patterns; others do well on moderate carbs. The best plan is the one you can keep doing.

How long will it take to see changes?

Every woman is different, but a realistic timeline might be:
2–4 weeks: more energy, less bloating, better sleep, fewer cravings
6–12 weeks: small but steady changes in measurements and clothes
3–12 months: noticeable change in weight, shape, strength, and health markers
Most guidelines say that even 5–10% weight loss can significantly cut health risks, especially around belly fat.

What if you “fall off” the plan?

You will. Everyone does.
– The key is what you do next:
– Pause, notice what happened (stress, tiredness, emotions).
– Choose one simple thing you can do today to step back into your plan.
Remind yourself: you are not starting from zero, you’re continuing a journey.

This article was first published in July 5, 2025 and last updated on December 5, 2025.

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Schellea Fowler, the visionary founder of Fabulous50s, brings over three decades of leadership and expertise in small business to her legacy. Not only has she achieved personal success, but she has also become a mentor, generously sharing her extensive experience with emerging entrepreneurs.

After retiring at 50 in 2016, Schellea’s passion for continuous growth led her to pursue further qualifications, becoming a certified fitness instructor and personal trainer specializing in exercise and brain health for older adults. Through Fabulous50s, Schellea continues her mission of inspiring women to embrace and celebrate every phase of life with confidence and vitality.

Her diverse qualifications reflect her commitment to holistic well-being, including a Neuro Athletics Coaching Certificate (NACC) from Neuro Athletics, Meditation Teacher Training from Yoga Coach, Fashion Styling certification from the Australian Style Institute, and Advanced Personal Colour Analysis from AOPI.

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In addition to her wellness expertise, Schellea is also a certified business and life coach, equipping her to empower women not only in health and fitness but also in their personal and professional growth.

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