12 Easy Holiday Self-Care Tips For Women Over 50

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

The holiday season is a time of joy, love, and togetherness. It’s a time to celebrate traditions, make memories, and share in the warmth of family and friends.

But it can also be a time of stress, overcommitment, and exhaustion. The pressure to create the perfect holiday experience can take a toll on our physical and mental health.

For many women over 50, the holiday season can be particularly challenging. We may have to balance hostess, gift shopper, decorator, cook, and caregiver while dealing with holiday emotions. There are also times when changes in our bodies or the way our families work can make the holidays feel more stressful than joyful.

That is why holiday self-care is essential. We can enjoy the festivities and make lasting memories with our loved ones when we take care of ourselves.

Thus, let’s take a look at some holiday self-care tips to feel less stressed during the festivities.

Top Holiday Self-Care Tips for Women Over 50

So, what does holiday self-care look like for women over 50? It’s not about escaping the holiday chaos or shirking our responsibilities. Rather, it’s about finding balance amidst the hustle and bustle. It’s about taking intentional steps to ensure our physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

Ultimately, holiday self-care is about honoring our needs and our realities. It’s about creating a holiday season that feels joyful, meaningful, and sustainable for us, regardless of societal expectations or pressures.

Here are my top holiday self-care tips:

1. Eat Mindfully

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

The holidays are a time when the temptation of festive treats is hard to resist! For me, mindful eating has been a game-changer. Instead of diving headfirst into the dessert table, I take a moment to savor each bite.

It’s not just about what’s on my plate; it’s about the experience of enjoying good food without overindulging. Trust me, it’s a delicious form of self-love!

Mindful eating is a cornerstone of well-being, especially during the holidays. Instead of succumbing to the tempting array of treats, focus on portion control and make conscious, healthy food choices. This ensures you enjoy the festivities without compromising your health.

2. Don’t Give Stress A Chance

Let’s face it, the holidays can get stressful. That’s why I’ve adopted stress-relief techniques that work wonders. Stress can take a toll on both mental and physical health.

Indulge in some stress-relief techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or even a leisurely stroll. Make sure you prioritize relaxation to ensure a peaceful and joyous holiday season. These moments of calm amidst the chaos make all the difference. Stress doesn’t stand a chance!

3. Make Physical Activity a Priority

Staying active during the holidays doesn’t have to mean grueling workouts. I’ve found joy in simple, health-boosting activities. Staying active is key to maintaining health and vitality.

From a morning stretch routine to a leisurely stroll in the winter air, it’s about keeping my body moving and, most importantly, enjoying every moment of it.

Engaging in gentle exercises will boost your energy levels and enhance your overall well-being during the holidays.  

Try out my holiday workouts to help you stay fit and active. Warm up, do some strength training workouts and cardio exercises and always do full-body stretching. Check out Fabulous50s YouTube channel for some amazing workouts for the holiday season.

4. Create Boundaries

The holiday season often brings a flurry of social obligations. The art of saying ‘no’ gracefully has been my secret weapon during the holidays. Setting boundaries doesn’t mean missing out; it means prioritizing what truly matters. It’s about creating space for the things that bring me joy and politely declining what doesn’t align with my well-being.

Learn to set boundaries gracefully to manage your time and energy effectively. Saying ‘no’ when necessary is an act of self-care.

READ ALSO: Self-care isn’t Self-Love. Here’s The Difference

4. Prioritize Quality Sleep 

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

In the midst of the holiday hustle, I prioritize quality sleep. Creating a serene bedtime routine, dimming the lights, and disconnecting from screens helps me recharge. Trust me, waking up refreshed is the best present I can give myself.

When you create a conducive sleep environment, you’ll have a relaxing pre-sleep routine. A good night’s sleep is a precious gift to your body and mind.

READ ALSO: 20 Amazing Sleep Products For a Good Night’s Rest

6. Make Time for Solitude

Whether it’s a quiet cup of tea by the fireplace or a moment of reflection, embracing solitude is my way of recharging. It’s in these peaceful moments that I find the strength to navigate the holiday buzz with a smile.

Whether it’s reading a book, enjoying a cup of tea, or practicing mindfulness, these moments contribute to inner peace and rejuvenation.

7. Create Holiday Self-Care Rituals

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

Creating personalized self-care rituals adds a sprinkle of magic to the season. From a cozy evening with a favorite book to a pampering spa day at home, these rituals are my way of infusing the holidays with joy and relaxation tailored just for me.

Establishing personal self-care rituals adds a meaningful touch to the holiday season. Whether it’s a spa day at home or a quiet evening with a favorite movie, these rituals become a source of joy and relaxation.

READ ALSO: How a Cacao Ritual Can Help You Embrace Self-Love and Bliss

8. Connect with Your Loved Ones

While self-care is paramount, meaningful connections with loved ones shouldn’t be overlooked. I make it a point to connect meaningfully with my children and loved ones.

Whether it’s a heartfelt conversation, a virtual gathering, or a simple handwritten note, these connections are the true treasures of the season.

The heart of the holidays lies in connections. Scheduling time for gatherings with family and friends brings joy and warmth, and it enhances the holiday spirit.

9. Gifts of Self-Care

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

The best gifts aren’t always wrapped; sometimes, they come in the form of self-care. Consider gifting yourself or others items that promote self-care. From scented candles to wellness subscriptions, these gifts symbolize a commitment to well-being.

Treating myself to a spa day, investing in a hobby, or simply giving myself permission to rest—these are the gifts that keep on giving, nurturing my well-being long after the holiday lights dim.

READ ALSO: 10 Ways Women Over 50 Can Practice Self-Love in Everyday Life

10. Navigate Social Events with Ease

Social events can be overwhelming, but I’ve learned to navigate them with ease.

Planning ahead, focusing on events that align with my values, and taking breaks when needed are my keys to enjoying the festivities without feeling drained.

11. Take Time to Reflect on the Year

holiday self-care tips for women over 50

As the year comes to an end, take time to reflect on personal growth and achievements. Celebrating personal growth, acknowledging achievements, and embracing lessons learned—this reflective mindset adds depth and gratitude to my holiday experience.

12. Maintain Healthy Habits Post-Holidays

The holiday self-care momentum doesn’t stop when the decorations come down. I seamlessly transition into maintaining healthy habits in the new year.

It’s not about resolutions; it’s about a lifestyle that prioritizes my well-being, ensuring a happy and healthy journey ahead.  When you develop positive habits during the holidays and add them to your daily routine, you will enjoy a healthier, happier new year.

READ ALSO: The Ultimate Thanksgiving Workout Plan for Women Over 50

Practical Ways to Implement Holiday Self-Care Tips

Here are some practical ways to implement these tips:

Make a self-care plan. This could involve scheduling self-care activities into your calendar, setting specific goals, or creating a self-care checklist. Making a plan helps you prioritize self-care.

Enlist the support of others. Share your self-care goals with your loved ones. Ask them to hold you accountable, offer support, or join you in your self-care activities.

Make self-care a daily habit. Even small acts of self-care can have a big impact on our well-being. This could mean starting your day with a few minutes of meditation, taking a short walk after dinner, or ending your day with a relaxing bath.

Be flexible and forgiving with yourself. Self-care is not about perfection; it’s about progress. If you miss a day of exercise or indulge in too many holiday treats, don’t beat yourself up. Simply acknowledge it and move on. Self-care is about treating ourselves with kindness and compassion, especially when we stumble.

Closing Thoughts

One last thought on holiday self-care tips for women over 50: You matter. Your health matters. Your happiness matters. Self-care is essential, not a luxury.

This holiday season, I encourage you to prioritize your well-being. Set boundaries, honor your needs, and develop sustainable habits. Take advantage of support and help others when you can. Celebrate in a joyful, meaningful, and sustainable way.

Remember, self-care is not about escaping the chaos of the holiday season. The key is finding balance in the chaos. We honor ourselves and our realities and create a holiday experience that nourishes our bodies, minds, and spirits.

During the holidays, please remember these self-care tips. You deserve love and care, so be kind to yourself, be patient, and treat yourself well. Ultimately, self-care is the best holiday gift.

Happy Holidays!

♡ Love ♡,


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Schellea Fowler

Schellea Fowler

Schellea Fowler, founder of Fabulous50s, has amassed over three decades of excellence in small business leadership and expertise. Beyond her personal achievements, Schellea’s legacy is enriched by her role as a mentor, guiding emerging entrepreneurs with best practices from her experience. Post-2016, (after retiring at 50) her commitment to growth led her to further qualifications, all while maintaining her vision to empower and inspire women to feel excited about the stage of life they are in, and to and embrace and celebrate the aging process.

Recently, Schellea decided to expand her knowledge base. She’s currently immersed in the Clean Health Master Personal Trainer program.

Her additional qualifications include: Fashion Styling from the Australian Style Institute, Advanced Personal Colour Analysis from AOPI,  and Meditation Teacher Training from Yoga Coach.

Above all, Schellea’s mission is simple yet profound: to support women in embracing the aging process with confidence and grace.

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Schellea Fowler

Schellea Fowler

Schellea Fowler, the visionary founder of Fabulous50s, brings over three decades of small business leadership and expertise to her legacy. Not only has she excelled personally, but she has also become a mentor, generously sharing her wealth of experience with emerging entrepreneurs.

After retiring at 50 in 2016, Schellea’s commitment to continuous growth led her to pursue additional qualifications. A qualified fitness instructor, she is presently continuing her master trainer program, specializing in exercise for older adults. Through Fabulous50s, Schellea remains devoted to her vision of empowering and inspiring women to embrace and celebrate their current stage of life.

Her additional qualifications include: Fashion Styling from the Australian Style Institute, Advanced Personal Colour Analysis from AOPI,  and Meditation Teacher Training from Yoga Coach.

Above all, Schellea’s mission is simple yet profound: to support women in embracing the aging process with confidence and grace.

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